If you’ve already explored what being an au pair is all about and you know the destinations—France, Spain, Ireland, China, or Australia—this post is your reminder: your adventure is waiting, and now is the time to act.
At Roast Jobs, we help young people just like you every day to find their match with a lovely host family, travel safely, and live one of the most transformative experiences of their lives. If you’ve been dreaming of making this move, this is your sign to do it now.
You don’t need a specific degree, years of childcare experience, or even to be fluent in a second language. What matters most? Your attitude, your motivation, and a few essential skills that will make your journey smoother, safer, and much more fun.
Here are 5 must-have skills for every future au pair:
1. Adaptability & Open-Mindedness
You’ll share your time with a new family in a new destination, with different rules, food, routines, and traditions. The ability to adapt quickly and embrace the unknown is key.
- Be open to different parenting styles and family dynamics.
- Expect change on plans, moods, schedules and learn to go with the flow.
- Stay curious and respectful. Every culture has its style.
2. Communication Skills
You’ll deal with children, parents, and even new friends in a different language. Your ability to express yourself clearly and to listen is essential.
- Be honest and proactive when something isn’t working.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions or share your thoughts.
- Speaking the local language isn’t a must, but learning a few basic words and phrases can make daily life with the family much easier—and show them you care.
3. First Aid Basics
Nobody expects you to be a nurse, but knowing how to respond calmly in minor emergencies is incredibly helpful.
- Learn how to handle small accidents: cuts, fevers, allergic reactions.
- Know how to keep the home safe (think: sharp objects, stair gates, hot pans).
- Most countries offer basic first aid training, and you can also find great online courses to get prepared before you leave.
4. Empathy & Emotional Intelligence
When you understand the family’s rhythm, connect with the kids emotionally, and stay calm in tough moments, you become more than just support, you become part of their daily life.
- Be patient and gentle even when a toddler is testing your limits (because trust me, that will happen more than once, lol).
- Know when to talk and when just to listen.
- Create a warm, trusting environment, it makes all the difference.
5. Creativity (and a Bit of Baking Doesn’t Hurt)
Rainy afternoons don’t need to be boring. Use your creativity for a DIY art session or bake something delicious with the kids.
- Come with ideas for games, crafts, and screen-free fun.
- Baking is optional, but it’s a lovely way to bond (and win hearts).
- Let your personality shine, it’s what kids will remember most.
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Why Apply Now?
Becoming an au pair in 2025 is not just about childcare. It’s a complete life experience.
- Grow personally by facing challenges, becoming independent, and discovering who you are away from home.
- Boost your career with improved language skills and international experience that looks great on any CV.
- Low-cost living sincethe host family provides meals and accommodation, making this one of the most budget-friendly ways to live abroad.
- Stay safe and supported—guided by Roast Jobs every step of the way. From choosing your destination to preparing your CV, interviews, and paperwork—we’re here for you.
Summer and autumn spots are going fast, whether you’re looking for a job in hospitality or an au pair experience. Start your application now to secure your host family match, ideal timing, and preferred destination.
👉 Apply now with Roast Jobs at roastjobs.com
This blog post was written by Júlia Zapparolli. Thank you for reading! 😊
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